Why are Chinese men angry? (youtube.com)
Chinese men joining the manosphere. Lack of women percentage, stories of women abandoning their husbands/fiances. The main reason is bride money, economic difficulties, experts say.
A famous story recently was a pretty 6.4 white boy grad student went to China and had hundreds of pretty Chinese girls, and they paid for everything and he had a low-cost dating lifestyle. He got some of them pregnant, cut off relations with some, smeared some. Reportedly, he didn't treat them nicely, he slept with them and then told them to get out of his aprartment cause he had stuff to do, because he knows that even if he cuts one off, the next one in line will tolerate whatever he does. He himself claimed he met 200 women in four years in China. If that's actually just meeting and he slept with like lets say 50, that's not a crazy number. Reportedly he knotched over 100, still not too crazy for four years.
‘He’s just tall and white' and posts pics on SM of it. It puts him ‘in the top 1% in China.' They don't post this, but he also seems to speak at least decent Chinese and makes SM posts, so he's working a bit at it. He'd PM the girls who responded to his posts if he found them pretty, invited them over to see his caligraphy. Other report is he joined a langauage school, met girls there, invited them to do language exchange and escalated.
The vlogger raised the question, if women don't care and still sleep with him, why is it his fault? People are angry with him? Lol its because opinions are emotion-based, not logic-based, and people attack those who compete or threaten them. In case you haven't been paying attention to women for the past 100 years.
Meanwhile, ‘Bride prices are surging in China.’ Chinese girls interviewed said that Europeans split the bill but in China the man pays.
‘I don’t get why they are the victim though. Why are they the victim. He told them straight up ... Even if he didn't say it, when you are sleeping with someone willingly, that is your decision.'
‘The West being idolized also plays a small part ... but that’s not the primary.'
One of the points the vlogger makes most is, ‘Just imagine being this girl’s future husband or boyfriend,' after she makes a post saying she slept with this guy superfast and how bad she felt when he kicked her out cause he had another date to have breakfast with a different girl. Meanwhile, she's also ‘calling men trash’ because of her experience, and ‘taking it out on her looksmatch' whose ‘only mistake was being a romantic fool, thinking she could ever feel the same about him,’ He points to studies that when women are turned down by attractive men, they take it out on less attractive men. Their ability to ‘trust men and form bonds’ is also ‘ruined’.
He said this is the main reason virginity matters. Women just don't feel the same towards the next guy. ‘You’re just another guy that she's gonna get over quick, that she's gonna forget. They will never feel the same towards their future husbands (as their first guy).'
He features the idea of Chinese young women who go to study abroad, live the college life for a few years, then return to China and try to find someone to settle down with a local who ‘has his life together.’ Why did you go on tour then, could you just skip that and go straight to trying to find your local partner? But then they're over-choosy with the men and reject the ones presented to them at meetups (arranged by parents).
Being foreign, it is theories, creates a sense of novelty and difference. Chinese guys have rules, but Western guys are ‘open’ so she can talk or sleep with them more openly, even if it's a girl who self-identifies as ‘a conservative Chinese girl.’
A self-reinforced sexualization and masculinization also may have happened, where the idea once it started, became adopted by Western men and they went even more into it, embodied and performed it. They present themselves as the pre-conceived ideas foreign/all women have of them, in the gym, etc, ‘even if that’s not who he truly is.'
He points to studies of race mix dating. Everyone knows these studies, white men attract everyone, black men don't, Asian Hispanic and White women attract fairly evenly and black women don't much. This is partially looks, but lots is just who you want to be with, the person, his way of acting, his friends, his prospects. People think whites are more open, easy to talk to, casual, easy to get along with, high trust, non-judgemental, etc, not just the looks, although the looks is a thing, especially for women trying to attract men. ‘Are white men the novelty in America as well?’
Are men gonna just start grabbing women off the streets?